The circumstances of the accident that killed an 11-year-old girl in Louisville, Mississippi, remain uncertain, but the impact on those who loved her is clear as they recall a girl who âwould light up any room you walked in.â
Sydnee Claire Stokes was killed Tuesday in an accident. Louisville Police Chief Sean Holdiness said an SUV struck the girl near a mailbox at about 4:30 p.m. on Tuesday, according to WTVA-TV.
The girl was taken to a hospital, but she died there.
Her father, Jay Stokes, posted photos of his daughter on his Facebook page and wrote a heartfelt message.
âI donât know why you had to leave this earthly body so soon, but everyone has their purpose in life. Sydnee Claire apparently you had used your time up. You are dancing in heaven tonight. Iâm so jealous,â he wrote.
âYou will always be my #1. You were loved everyone and had an unforgettable personality. This is something no parent is supposed to go through. The calls and messages have meant so much, please forgive me if I donât respond,â he wrote.
Family friend Diane Richardson posted her remembrance online as well.
âmy precious sydnee girl my sassy, beautiful, loud, happy little shadow for so many years.. you would light up any room you walked in & 11 years just wasnât enough.. all the spend the night parties, summers, and mama mel trying to teach us how to cook & bake,â she wrote.
âyou were so special to me & made an impact on everyone you met! your hugs made any day better & iâll love you forever sweet girl,â she wrote.
Mississippi Highway Patrol accident reconstruction experts have been requested to help sort out the details, according to WLBT-TV.
Jay Stokes shared one bit of advice amid his grief.
âTell everyone to hug their kids often and tell them you love them every chance you get,â he told the television station.
Stokes followed that up with another Facebook post to acknowledge the support the community had given him.
âIâm gonna tell you all a few things that are weighing on an old broken hearted daddy. I have never in my life dreamed (not that I every wanted to dream about this) the tragedy of my little girl could have brought this County together,â he wrote.
âAt a time when society seems to be at the worst I have ever seen it in my short 41 years. I have always known I was loved and thought I felt what loved felt like. Let me tell you all I know now what it feels like now. I will not go into details in the wide open because you know who you are and I havenât got a clue. I am forever grateful and donât know how I deserve your kindness,â he wrote.
âAs far as grieving, I am still doing just that. But, I have found peace with all this tragedy. When Sydnee took her first breath, her Book of Life was written in stone. Did I want it to be only 11 years long, no. There is nothing on this earthly world that could change or extend it. So please keep your prayers and thoughts for our family coming strong,â he wrote.
The young girlâs obituary recalled the high points of her life.
âShe enjoyed sleepovers with all her best friends, making videos with sisters Hadlee and Logan, playing softball, singing and dancing, playing computer games with brother Knox, and target shooting, hunting, and fishing with her dad,â it said.
âShe was a member of Ellison Ridge Baptist Church, where she was baptized by her grandfather Bro. Mark Jones on December 17, 2017,â it said.
This article appeared originally on The Western Journal.
