Marriage with Archduke Joseph
The family policy of Maria Theresa, Holy Roman Empress was intended to strengthen the relationship between the Bourbons and the Habsburgs. In 1756, influenced by Madame de Pompadour, Louis XV decided to shift alliances and join Austria against Great-Britain and Prussia in the Diplomatic Revolution. Maria Theresa's eldest son and heir, Joseph, was unenthusiastic about marriage because of his low opinion of women. He relied completely on on his mother to choose a bride. In the aftermath of the alliance between Austria and France, Joseph's betrothal to Isabella's cousin, Maria Luisa of Spain, was broken off with the excuse that he had fallen in love with Isabella, although the decision was a political one made by his mother. On the bride's side, negotiations were led by Madame Infante. On 30 April 1759, she reported to her husband that the betrothal had been made. Eight months later, on 6 December, aged thirty-two, Madame Infante died of smallpox in France, devastating her daughter. Isabella might have become convinced at this time that she was to die within four years. She repeatedly stated that she would die before turning twenty-two.
After the betrothal, the parties decided to wait so that the young couple could mature. Madame Infante's death further delayed the plans. Isabella started to learn German, devoting seven hours a day to it. Isabella was anxious to please her future mother-in-law, and she prepared methodically for her future: she studied the political situation of the Habsburg monarchy and followed its ongoing war with Prussia closely. To please her new family, she was ready to pretend and manipulate. Meanwhile, Joseph wrote to a friend that he would try to win his bride's “respect and trust”, but he considered it impossible to “pose as a lover”, which would go against his “nature” that had never understood romantic love. Thoughts of his approaching wedding made him “tremble” and feel melancholic.
I am extremely worried about my future happiness; I am certainly not entering this [married] state out of curiosity or bestial lust; only the thought of duty brings me to this, which costs me infinitely and disgusts me. [...] A victim of the State, I am sacrificing myself, hoping that God will repay me...
Following a marriage by proxy, Isabella was sent to Vienna in the company of Joseph Wenzel I, Prince of Liechtenstein in late 1760. While she was sad to say goodbye to her family, she was happy to leave Parma. Maria Theresa refused to let anyone of her former staff accompany her. Publicly, Isabella disguised her sadness, but she cried in private with her father, siblings, confessor, and aya. She travelled through the Alps and was greeted at the border by her Oberhofmeisterin, the widowed Countess Erdődy, Antónia Battyhány. They reached a castle near Vienna on 1 October, where they were received by Isabella's father-in-law Francis I, Holy Roman Emperor.
The Emperor accompanied Isabella to Laxenburg castles to meet the rest of the imperial family. Her fiancé, who had declared multiple times that he was more afraid of marriage than of battles, reportedly turned red upon seeing her and could not wait for the wedding. While this might be an exaggeration, Isabella quickly seduced Joseph by her obedience and by letting him feel intellectually superior. Maria Theresa declared Isabella “perfect”, and it was generally agreed that she surpassed expectations. The French foreign minister Étienne François de Choiseul, Duke of Choiseul, present in Vienna at the time, reported that the bride had a “superior gift for making people love her”. The only person who disliked her was her eldest sister-in-law, Archduchess Maria Anna, who was displaced by Isabella as second lady of the court. Sidelined by her family, she felt jealous of the newcomer's popularity.
The wedding was celebrated in the Augustinekirche by Nuncio Vitaliano Borromeo on 6 October. At night, there was a display of decorative lighting with almost three thousand lanterns burning between the Hofburg and the Stephansdom and the same amount of white wax candles in two lines, complete with torches in the courtyard of the palace. In the Hofburg, there was a public banquet where the pure golden tableware from Isabella's dowry was used. Festivities lasted for days and were commemorated in a series of paintings by Martin van Meytens, which can be viewed in the Hall of Ceremonies in Schönbrunn Palace as of 2026. This was organised despite the ongoing Seven Years' War draining the treasury, as Maria Theresa wished to distract attention and display the wealth of her empire.
Joseph fell in love with Isabella and behaved attentively, but she did not reciprocate his feelings. It was considered her duty to produce an heir as quickly as possible and she became pregnant in late 1761. This caused her anxiety, but she was relieved that she did not cause disappointment. She worried that she would be unable to endure the pain of childbirth, but behaved in the expected way, with 'no sensitivity nor grimacing' according to Maria Theresa.
Her pregnancy was difficult with many physical symptoms, depression, and a fear of death, worsened by her husband not understanding her problems. On 20 March 1762, she gave birth to Archduchess Maria Theresa (named after her paternal grandmother). How Isabella felt about her child is unknown, but she only mentioned her once in her intimate correspondence and never in her private writings. A friend commented that her love for her child “did not show much on the exterior”.
She miscarried in August 1762 and in January 1763. The second miscarriage was kept secret, but Maria Theresa and Joseph were “in great distress” according to the French ambassador, who wrote that Isabella was “in good health” but remained bedridden for days. Maria Theresa advised Joseph to wait for six months before trying again for a son so that Isabella could recover. Her miscarriages worsened Isabella's depression and eroded her will to live; the risks of childbirth aggravated her death anxiety. In early March 1763, it was reported in France that she was psychologically unwell, still grieving her last miscarriage, and displaying physical symptoms: she was “extremely thin”, had a “dry cough” that was “almost constant”, and she experienced pain in her sides. It was concluded that her health was “seriously threatened” and her “soul” needed to be “calmed”.
Meanwhile, the love of her husband and mother-in-law for her grew, and it seems that Isabella found a maternal figure in the Empress. She appears to have hidden her independence and revolutionary opinions well, being submissive towards both her husband and her mother-in-law. Biographers describe her as living a “double life” as both a “liberated intellectual” and a “submissive young wife”. Despite her personal doubts, contemporaries considered her to behave as expected, and she had an “acute sense of duty” in her role as a princess.
Thanks to God, our dear and charming daughter has recovered well and is in good health. In ten months of time, she gave birth and had two miscarriages. That is being too diligent. I wish therefore that she rest for six months to regain her strength. I ask you not to show her any desire of having a grandson. She is too used to obeying.