Family life
It is not known when Sir Frederick began an affair with Hannah Bowerbank, a "companion" to Sir Frederick's mother at Hutton in the Forest, according to the memoir of Sir Frederick's grandson, later Sir Francis Patrick Fletcher Vane, 5th Baronet. On 22 August 1794, Hannah Bowerbank gave birth to a daughter, also named Hannah. A son was born on 9 July 1795, Walter Vane, and the "intimacy between Sir Frederick and Hannah continued and they lived together at various places in Cumberland and among others at Broughton Hall in the parish of Bridekirk". The children were baptised on 16 July 1795 at St Mary's Parish Church, Marylebone, London.
Sir Francis describes Hannah Bowerbank as coming from a "good though impoverished family". It is not clear that they were in fact impoverished. The obituary of Hannah Bowerbank's father, John Bowerbank, in the National Register in 1808 describes him as a "most respectable farmer under His Grace the Duke of Norfolk for upwards of 60 years and father of the present Lady Vane of Armathwaite". In fact, John Bowerbank also managed the lands of the Hassells of Dalemain and the Fletcher Vane family at Hutton.
The Bowerbank family had been settled at Johnby in the parish of Greystoke, County Cumberland, for several centuries and had intermarried with some of the leading Cumberland families of the time including the houses of Fetherstonhaugh and Musgrave. The descendants of John Bowerbank (bp. 1598) and Grace Malleson (bp. 1601), John Bowerbank's 2x great grandparents, include George Stanhope, 8th Earl of Chesterfield (1822-1883), Thomas Bowerbank (1686–1768), Barrack Master of Portsmouth, Architect and Overseer of the Ordnance Board who amassed a considerable fortune, and the daughter of Thomas Bowerbank, Catherine "Kitty" Bowerbank (1717–1804), a "lady of merit and fortune", who married Captain Cotton Dent, one of the first Captains of the Royal Greenwich Naval Hospital and scion of the great Dent naval family which included Commander Digby Dent, best man to Lord Nelson at his wedding to Mrs Nisbet on the Island of Nevis. Dent served with Nelson on HMS Boreas. Another kinsman, John Bowerbank, a lieutenant on HMS Bellerephon, accompanied Napoleon to exile on St Helena and he wrote an extant account of his observations during the voyage. The Bowerbank family were also notable in the church and academia, James Scott Bowerbank FRS being another kinsman.
On 9 March 1797, Sir Frederick married Hannah Bowerbank at the church of St George the Martyr, Holborn, London. At this point Hannah was pregnant with a third child, Francis Fletcher Vane, who was born on 29 March 1797; the precise date of the birth would be a future bone of contention, resulting in an unedifying lawsuit initiated by Sir Frederick's youngest son in 1872. After Francis's birth, it appears that for the next four years Sir Frederick and Lady Vane resided at Putney, then in Surrey, and "at other places in or about London".
Sir Frederick's first son, Walter Vane, was educated at Eton from 1805 to 1807 and thereafter at Charterhouse between 1808 and 1809 when the school was based at Smithfield, London. Walter was enlisted as a lieutenant in the 1st Foot Guards on 11 September 1811 and served in the Peninsular Wars fought between Napoleon and the allied forces of Britain, Spain and Portugal to gain control of the Iberian Peninsula. He fought between March 1813 and April 1814 at the battles of Bidassoa, Nivelle, Nive and Adour. Walter Vane attained the rank of captain on 15 March 1814. At the time of Napoleon's capitulation in 1814, shortly before Napoleon's first exile to Elba, Walter Vane was in the camp of the Grenadier Guards at Bayonne. The French General refused to believe that Napoleon could have conceded and the result is best summed up by Walter's nephew:
The British learnt from their ships that Peace had been signed and sent word to the French General at Bayonne that this was so but the latter would not believe it, thinking it a ruse, perfide Albion and all that. But we, knowing the fact, relaxed in military precautions, and I expect had a jollification. Then the French made an effective sortie from the town to the west towards the sea and caught us napping – result, many hundreds of our men killed and thirteen officers. I do not suppose there was any treachery in it, but rather the incredulity of the French.
During the French sortie at Bayonne, Walter suffered wounds on 14 April 1814 and died shortly thereafter on 20 April 1814. He was nineteen years of age and was buried in one of the Guards' Cemeteries, North West of Bayonne. There are two Guards' Cemeteries at Bayonne, one in the woods next to their original camp and another larger one, where Walter was buried, further North West between Bayonne and Boucau, mainly for officers of the Coldstream Guards; as he was wounded at the original camp of the Grenadier Guards, it is likely he was moved, injured, to his burial place. Walter's extant weathered gravestone is simply inscribed 'W.V.'. Walter Vane is also remembered at the English Church in Biarritz, the first on the list of British Officers killed in the Pyrenees. He was further commemorated on Memorial Panel VII for Bayonne, Royal Military Chapel, Wellington Barracks, London, although this was destroyed by a flying bomb during the Second World War. Sir Frederick himself commissioned a memorial tablet for St Bega's Church, Bassenthwaite, close to Armathwaite Hall, Cumberland:
THIS MONUMENT WAS ERECTED BY SIR F. F. VANE BART. IN THE MEMORY OF HIS SON WALTER VANE ESQ. LATE CAPTAIN IN THE 1ST FOOT GUARDS, OR DUKE OF YORK'S REGIMENT WHO WAS MORTALLY WOUNDED AT THE BATTLE OF BAYONNE ON THE 14TH OF APRIL, 1814 AND DIED ON THE 19TH IN THE SAME MONTH, IN THE 19TH YEAR OF HIS AGE. HIS REMAINS WERE INTERRED WITH MILITARY HONOURS BETWEEN THE CITY OF BAYONNE AND THE VILLAGE OF BOUCAT ALONG WITH MANY OF HIS BROTHER OFFICERS WHO BRAVELY FELL IN THE SERVICE OF THEIR COUNTRY, ON THE SAME MEMORABLE OCCASION
Letters written by Walter to his parents passed to Walter's nephew, Francis:
I have letters from an uncle of mine, who joined as a young officer of the Guards when our troops attacked San Sebastian in Spain. We had then driven the French, with the aid of the Spaniards and the Portuguese, almost out of the two countries. He writes home in these words: "What a dull thing soldiering really is. We fight every month or so, and meantimes we rot".
Queen Victoria visited the cemetery in Bayonne on 20 March 1889 and Edward VII on 20 March 1909. It is not without irony that Walter Vane's kinsman, John Bowerbank, as a lieutenant on HMS Bellerephon, escorted Napoleon to his final exile on St Helena.
Lady Hannah Vane gave birth to a daughter, Sophia Mercy Vane, on 18 March 1802. On 22 March 1802, Sophia was baptised at St Bega's Church, Bassenthwaite. On 1 August 1839, at the age of 37, she married the Reverend Forbes Smith, later Forbes Smith de Heriz, at the Parish Church in Cheltenham, her address stated as Park Place, Cheltenham. The Rev. Forbes Smith was then residing at Wolseley Lodge, Cheltenham and the witnesses were Carlisle Spedding and Sarah Spedding.
Sir Frederick and Lady Vane had a further son, Frederick Henry Vane, born on 10 May 1807 at Armathwaite Hall. He was initially sent to Laleham School, then under the control of Dr Arnold who would later develop the Victorian public school ideal of muscular Christianity while headmaster of Rugby. After prep school, Frederick was sent to Eton, under Dr. Keate, where he was a contemporary of the young Gladstone. Keate was known as the "swishing headmaster" and Frederick was "one of seventy victims" punished for breaking bounds to attend the Windsor Fair. The boys were caned alphabetically and Frederick was thankful that by the time his turn came, the headmaster was losing strength.
In his memoirs, Frederick's son, Francis, describes a scene at Armathwaite when his father, then a boy at Eton:
witnessed a battle which must have been one of the last feudal ones in England. My grandfather owned most of the feudal lands round the lake, but Lord Egremont, who lived at Cockermouth Castle, had some special rights over the water and the foreshore, and desired to build a pier for some purpose or other. This was opposed to my grandfather's wishes as the park of Armathwaire runs down to the lake. In spite of this, Egremont sent a body of workmen from Cockermouth to erect it-and when this was known there was a call to arms of all our tenants and foresters. So rapidly did they mobilise that some of them had not time to put on their boots, but rode to the fray in their stockinged feet. The townsmen were badly beaten by the dalesmen, some thrown into the lake-and the pier was never built.
After Eton, Frederick was commissioned into the 12th Lancers serving with the expeditionary force sent to Portugal in 1827 after which he retired from the Army. He then served in the Consular Service at Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, and at Boston in America. He died in Brighton in December, 1894.