What the United States needs is more âUncle Daves.â
A letter published last week by syndicated advice columnist Amy Dickinson is generating a wave of social media support for a man who was reportedly cut out of his nieceâs wedding over his political views â but is now the target of resentment because heâs not coming through with a gift.
Itâs almost unbelievable enough to be dismissed as fake out of hand, but it fits the leftist template so well, itâs disturbingly normal.
In the letter, signed by âAngry in Philadelphia,â a woman described how her daughter decided against inviting âUncle Daveâ to her wedding because the old boyâs politics would âmake her feel unsafeâ at the wedding celebration.
âMy daughter is very politically Progressive, as are many of her friends,â the mother wrote, âand although she and Dave have always had a good relationship (I thought), he is a conservative voter and has supported candidates we all abhor.â
At her daughterâs request, âAngryâ wrote her brother a note to tell him he would not be invited â he didnât respond or attend the wedding.
She then sent him pictures from the occasion, âall in an effort to make him feel like he was not being totally left out.â
Ah, it must have been great for Uncle Dave to know he wasnât being totally left out â just left out enough to know that his physical company was not welcome at one of the milestone events in any Family.
But that isnât why âAngryâ was writing to be asking Amy. She was angry because Uncle Dave hadnât come across with his usual $1,000 or more gift for the happy couple.
âMy husband says I should drop it â but I canât. Daveâs behavior is upsetting and embarrassing to me.
âHow can I get my brother to recognize and change his petty behavior?â she asked.
âPlease donât tell me that Iâm the one who started this by not inviting my brother to the wedding. After all, heâs a grown man, while my daughter is young and just starting out.â
It seems like most individuals with a sense of propriety, respect for others, or even a modicum of intelligence would probably have figured out Uncle Dave wouldnât be sending a check any time soon â but âAngryâ is clearly lacking in all three. (Itâs also a pretty good bet that the pictures she sent as a gesture of goodwill were probably aimed at Uncle Daveâs checkbook as much as his sensitive feelings.)
For what itâs worth, Amy set her straight.
âIn short: Brides who are too afraid of Family members to invite them to a Family wedding donât then get the pleasure of receiving their Money.
âYou seem almost as afraid of your daughter as she is of your brother, but I hope youâll find a way to courageously tell her that the Bank of Uncle Dave is closed, at least to your branch of the Family.
âSo far, your silent brother is the only Family member who is behaving appropriately. Heâs steering clear, which is exactly what you have asked him to do.â
On social media, the response was similar, if often less politely worded.
Again, thereâs really no way of knowing whether the letter actually describes a real Family situation, but can anyone whoâs been paying attention to the U.S. over the past decade automatically rule it out?
The Progressive politics of this brainless bride and her friends (God help her husband, assuming there is a husband, in this case) didnât come from a vacuum. This country has been awash in them for years. (And that very much includes Philadelphia, a Democratic machine city with a district attorney paid for by billionaire George Soros and the inevitable, chaotic crime problem that combination produces.)
The Progressive sense of entitlement is bottomless â demonstrated by President Joe Bidenâs blatantly unconstitutional bid to wipe out student loans (and Democratic response to the Supreme Courtâs decision Friday that that wasnât going to fly).
And the bottom line is they always expect Uncle Dave to be insulted with impunity and still fork over the cash to pay for it all. (Like conservative fans of the NFL, Major League Baseball and the NBA seem bafflingly content to watch their beliefs spit upon and still turn out to cheer the men who mock the country and pretty much everything thatâs decent.)
If this letter is accurate, one Uncle Dave is finally saying, âno.â
The country needs more of them â say, 81 million more of them â to make themselves understood as well as âUncle Daveâ is doing here.
This article appeared originally on The Western Journal.
